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Esther Perel Retreat

Erotic Intelligence: Cultivating Desire and Aliveness in Your Relationships
Oct 8 -13, 2025 | 6 days | Paros, Greece
About This Event

Why does great sex so often fade for couples who claim to love each other as much as ever?
Why does good intimacy not always guarantee good sex?
Can we want what we already have?
Why does the transition to parenthood so often spell erotic disaster?
Why is the forbidden so erotic?
And when you love, how does it feel, and when you desire, how is it different?

Join globally-celebrated relationship expert Esther Perel for a week-long intensive that will explore the answers to these questions and ignite playfulness and vitality in your relationships. We will combine discussion, interactive exercises, and physical practices, surrounded by the natural beauty of Greece. In an atmosphere free of judgment, we will present a nuanced, multicultural understanding of love, desire, and erotic intimacy.

You will learn to:

Inhabit a new definition of eroticism that extends far beyond mere sexual performance to include aliveness, playfulness, and creativity.
Elicit spontaneity and step out of your familiar routines that keep you feeling dissatisfied, uninspired, or fearful.
Deeply understand your erotic self – your longings, inhibitions, and prohibitions, as well as your values and beliefs about intimacy and pleasure.
● Practice the art of deep listening and connection, and understand how to transcend challenges when personal histories or trauma make that more difficult.
Have courageous conversations by taking emotional risks and opening up your communication channels. Develop the tools to make these conversations safe – even if they trigger you.
Explore the need for security and closeness with the quest for separateness and passion, reconciling hyper-connection with solitude and using your imagination and inner resources to soothe yourself.
Move beyond your comfort zone into an expansive and fully charged connection.

We welcome clinicians and lay participants as well as couples and individuals of all orientations.

5200€/per person
About The Leader

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Her celebrated TED Talks have garnered more than 40 million views and her bestselling books, Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs, are global phenomena translated into nearly 30 languages. Esther is also the host of the hit podcast Where Should We Begin? which is available on Apple Podcasts. Her latest project is Where Should We Begin – A Game of Stories with Esther Perel. Learn more at EstherPerel.com or by following @EstherPerelOfficial on Instagram.

Retreat Contributors

Paul Browde is a storyteller, couples’ therapist, wilderness guide, and a queer IFS-informed psychiatrist. He has been in practice for more than thirty years. As co-founder of Narativ Inc., a storytelling company and faculty in Columbia University’s Narrative Medicine program, he designed and led multiple year storytelling projects in the US, Europe, and Africa. Paul is co-author and performer of Two Men Talking, an internationally acclaimed storytelling performance, which played on stages around the world, including on the West End of London and Off Broadway in New York.

Benjamin Fry is the founder of Khiron Clinics, one of the world’s leading residential trauma treatment centres, and Televagal, an innovative mental health technology platform. An accredited psychotherapist, couples therapist, speaker, author, and entrepreneur, he has written four books, including The Invisible Lion: How to Tame your Nervous System and Heal your Trauma.

With a diverse career spanning psychology, media, and business, Benjamin read Physics and Philosophy at Oxford University and then did an MFA in Film Production at USC, directing a feature-length film distributed by HBO and Paramount. He later went on to set up various enterprises in the hospitality industry before completing an MA in Psychotherapy and Counselling at Regent’s College and an Executive MBA from Oxford University. His first book led to his role as the expert psychotherapist on the BBC series Spendaholics. Benjamin speaks at mental health conferences worldwide, raising awareness of the effectiveness of nervous system-based therapies for treating trauma. He also delivers workshops to help people optimize and heal their relationships through trauma informed practices and education.

About The Destination

Located in the heart of the Cyclades in the Aegean Sea, Paros is a charming Greek island celebrated for its Cycladic architecture, golden beaches with crystal-clear waters, and picturesque villages surrounded by shadowy valleys and ancient treasures. Condé Nast describes it as the loveliest of all the Cyclades.

From serene beaches to cultural treasures and vibrant villages, Paros combines natural beauty with timeless charm. Whitewashed Naoussa, with its tranquil harbor, stands out as one of the most picturesque and stylish former fishing villages in the Cyclades.

About The Hotels
The rolling landscape of Paros, with its pine-fringed coves, whitewashed villages, and mountainous terrain, forms the perfect backdrop for Parīlio. Among its suites, past, present, and future merge in a celebration of this iconic Greek escape. Designed by Interior Design Laboratorium and led by Design Hotels™ Originals Kalia and Antonis Eliopoulos, Parīlio draws inspiration from its surroundings—landscape, history, and mythology. As the island’s first true luxury gateway, Parīlio embraces the unspoiled natural beauty and relaxed rhythms of Cycladic life. With timeless Greek architecture and modern design, the hotel delivers an authentic experience. Its name combines ‘Paros’ and the Greek word for sun, ‘ilios,’ reflecting its harmony with the locale. This retreat offers a poetic escape, blending contemporary needs with a time-honored aesthetic, making it an idyllic hideaway for all travelers.
About The Hotel

At Cosme, whether you choose your journey—or let your journey choose you—our warm, attentive team is here to guide your path. Revel in the spirit of the private beach club, browse the treasures of the Anthologist boutique, relax in the sweeping spa, or gather for a Medite-grecian feast at Parostia Restaurant, curated by renowned Greek chef Yiannis Kioroglou. Moments from the vibrant harbor town of Naoussa, Cosme is nestled in a world of sugar-dusted fishing villages, serene hillsides, and crystalline Aegean beaches. The hotel’s design-forward guestrooms echo the spirit of the island—an elegant mix of Parian blues and whites, enriched with local art and curated finds reminiscent of traveling merchants. Here, you are free to swim, rest, laugh, and explore. At Cosme, you are free to be.

Orbis Sessions Venue

Orbis, nestled between the two hotels just 1-2 miles from each, offers a stunning setting with breathtaking sea views. Guests will enjoy seamless group transfers to and from both hotels for their daily sessions. The venue’s distinctive design boasts both elegant indoor spaces and serene outdoor areas, perfectly blending comfort and natural beauty.

Indicative Schedule
  • Check-in – begins 3:00 PM
  • No programming during the day
  • 7:30 PM - Opening Community Dinner

Disclaimer: This schedule is indicative and is subject to change as we move closer to the retreat date. 


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    Event Highlights

    KEY HIGHLIGHTS EXPERIENCES TBA

    • All sessions with Esther Perel, Paul Browde, and Benjamin Frye
    • All breakfast meals
    • All dinner meals
    • 5-night accommodation at Parīlio Hotel / Cosme Hotel
    • Transfers between Parīlio Hotel & Cosme Hotel and the Orbis Session Venue

    • Airfare or ship tickets to/from Paros, Greece
    • Arrival and departure land transfers in Paros, Greece
    • Lunch, soft drinks, beverages
    • Accommodation Tax of 10EUR / room / night payable by the guests directly to the hotel
    • Whatever is not mentioned clearly in the inclusions

    We strongly advise you to book flexible airfare tickets and flights with fewer carbon emissions to contribute to environmental protection, as it is our responsibility to safeguard our environment 

     

    Payment Plan: Available – contact us at info@travelgems.com for details.

    Language: English

    Room Upgrades: Available – please contact info@travelgems.com for options.

    Transportation: For Esther Perel’s retreat in Paros, Greece, you can fly into Paros National Airport (PAS). From there, it’s approximately a 21-minute drive to Parīlio Hotel or a 30-minute drive to Cosme Hotel. We can assist with arranging a transfer—please reach out to info@travelgems.com for bookings or additional information.

    Sessions Venue: All sessions with Esther Perel will take place at the Orbis Seaside Venue. Transportation between the hotel and the venue (round trip) is included.

    Non-participants / Accompanying Guests: Specific rates are available—please contact us at info@travelgems.com for more information

    Cancellation Policy: A 30% non-refundable deposit is required to secure your spot. The remaining 70% is refundable and can be paid in flexible installments, with the full balance due 45 days prior to the retreat start date. Cancellations made after this point will incur a 100% cancellation fee

    Community Dinners: All Community Dinners will be held at the Parīlio Hotel. Transfers are included.

    Important Info: In case there are Covid-19 restrictions or restrictions related to any other pandemic that prevent guests from traveling the total amount paid will be refunded.

    Dietary Needs: Should you have any special dietary needs/allergies, kindly let us know in advance in order to be able to better accommodate you in the best possible way.

    Prices

    Participation Options:

    • 6,200 EUR/person – Entry Level Double occupancy Earth suite at Cosme Hotel – SOLD OUT
    • 6,800 EUR/person – Partial Sea View Double occupancy Gaia suite at Cosme Hotel – SOLD OUT
    • 7,000 EUR/person – Sea View Double occupancy Ocean suite at Cosme Hotel – SOLD OUT
    • 5,200 EUR/person – TWIN suite at Parīlio Hotel – SOLD OUT
    • 6,200 EUR/person – Single occupancy suite at Parīlio Hotel – SOLD OUT
    • 6,300 EUR/person – Single occupancy suite with Shared Pool at Parīlio Hotel – SOLD OUT

    Price Includes:

    • All sessions with Esther Perel, Paul Browde, and Benjamin Frye
    • All breakfast meals
    • All dinner meals
    • 5-night accommodation at Parīlio Hotel / Cosme Hotel
    • Transfers between Parīlio Hotel & Cosme Hotel and the Orbis Session Venue

    Room Options & Upgrades

    Specific room types and upgrade options are available upon request. For more details, please contact us at info@travelgems.com.


    Booking Instructions: Double Occupancy Room

    To reserve a double occupancy suite, please select two (2) spots and add them to your cart. This suite is intended for two guests sharing one king-sized bed. Kindly include the full names of both participants in the Notes section at checkout.

    If you wish to share a room with another participant but require separate sleeping arrangements, please select the TWIN suite option, which provides two individual beds.


    Booking Instructions: Single occupancy suite in a Shared Pool Villa 

    Enjoy maximum comfort and the privacy of your own single bedroom with a king-size bed and en-suite bathroom, while also experiencing the warmth of shared space, which includes a spacious pool and a living room in an elegant, luxurious three-bedroom villa spanning up to 100 sq.m. Ideal for solo travelers, this accommodation option offers unveiling stunning views of the surrounding landscape, a large terrace gracefully framing the villa’s private pool with sunbeds, and shared access to a spacious living area.

    Please note: By booking your single occupancy suite in the villa, it means you will be sharing the villa with up to two other guests. 


    For any questions or assistance, feel free to contact us at info@travelgems.com.